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Must-read books on dating, relationships, and self-improvement.

  • β€œAttached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller
    Understand how attachment styles impact your dating patterns and relationships so you can create healthier connections.

  • The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
    Discover how you and your partner express love differently, improving your ability to give and receive love in a way that resonates.

  • The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker
    The importance of trusting your intuition and recognizing early warning signs of danger. Essential for dating, this book helps you develop stronger situational awareness, set boundaries with confidence, and navigate interactions safely.

  • How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk by John Van Epp
    Learn how to assess compatibility and avoid unhealthy relationship patterns using a practical framework called the RAM (Relationship Attachment Model).

  • How to Be an Imperfectionist by Stephen Guise
    A must-read if overthinking and perfectionism are holding you back in dating and life. Learn how to take action and embrace growth.

  • How to Not Die Alone by Logan Ury
    A data-driven approach to dating that helps you shift your mindset, avoid common pitfalls, and build meaningful relationships.

  • Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
    Explores how to maintain passion and desire in long-term relationships.

  • The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson
    An unconventional take on self-improvement that challenges you to focus on what truly matters in dating, relationships, and life.

  • Wired for Dating by Stan Tatkin
    A neuroscience-based guide to dating, helping you understand how your brain is wired for connection and how to foster lasting intimacy.

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