“What has been the most helpful is understanding what kind of headspace you need to be in to make new relationships with others.

Personally, both in a romantic and non-romantic context, I have struggled to make connections because I often time go into an interaction thinking I shouldn't bother people, or they don't want to listen to me.

I think some of the things you mentioned (i.e., mindset>location or curiosity leads to connections) are things that I think have helped me change the way I view making new relationships.”

“Sandy’s workshops have been very eye opening on how to improve my online dating profile and get more matches online!

She’s certainly covered some very critical tips that I’ve never even thought or heard of, and they had an immediate impact on my online dating successes!”

“It was reassuring to realize that I am not alone in this very difficult endeavor we call dating. Sandy’s answers were always insightful and very practical pieces of advice (i.e., the “how to” for successful dating). She made sure the information always made sense, and she was always sensitive, positive and encouraging.

I believe that everyone in attendance found her sessions to be helpful to his/her individual problems and fears. I know I did.

If you have hesitations around dating or specific aspects of it you would like to improve, I would highly recommend you join Sandy for one of her online group sessions or in an individual coaching session if you prefer. You will be glad you did.”

“The most helpful and valuable portion of the events are not focusing on finding a boyfriend/girlfriend, but to redirect our focus on improving our social and communication skills to build relationships, understanding in order to improve our communication skills we must practice in everyday situations when/how/where opportunities arise and it takes time (it’s okay to stumble), and the homework you assign after the event.

We need to be held accountable to our own success; you’re helpful but we must do the leg work.”

“I really enjoy the open inclusive atmosphere you cultivate.

I feel somewhat motivated to participate the more you juxtapose real situations to the strategies you lay out. I’m actually a very introverted individual, so just listening to your presentations is useful.

I think the issue I have right now is that I’m holding myself back from most people.

As long as you keep trying to engage everyone at the minimum, I think little by little it would help me try to apply your strategies moving forward virtually and IRL.”

"I've now attended 8 or 10 of Sandy's dating webinars and AMA's on Meetup and office hours through The Date Lab's website. I've really enjoyed them all, and learned something genuinely worthwhile each time.

Her welcoming, affirming, encouraging, and inclusive attitude and presence is a real pleasure, and I've really looked forward to each session.

Sandy's knowledgeable and enthusiastic about her subject, which I think makes her a terrific coach for anyone entering, re-entering, or dissatisfied and stuck in the confusing dating scene of the day."

“With Sandy's help, I rewrote my profile prompts and noticed a big difference — I’m getting much better matches now!

I’ve even started video calling as a great way to connect before a date.

If you can, attend one of her workshops or office hours; it’s truly worth it!”

“You focus on curiosity in a way that I hadn't seen before.

It makes the prospect of going out and meeting people less daunting.”

“Sandy’s advice is practical and personable.

I’m not only learning what to look for, but also about how to present myself. Whether looking for romance or friends, the information is useful.”