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The A–Z of First Dates
First dates can be nerve-wracking — especially if you haven’t had one in a while (or ever). This A–Z guide walks you through every step: asking someone out, choosing where to go, navigating awkward silences, and knowing what to do after the date — all with clarity, warmth, and a little humor.
Noticing the Signs: Green Flags, Red Flags, and Gut Checks When You Meet Someone New
Not sure if that new person you just met is worth your time — or if you should slowly back away? This post breaks down green flags, red flags, and how to tune into your gut without jumping to conclusions.
When You’re Doing Everything “Right”, but Still Not Meeting the Right People
You’ve put yourself out there, followed all the dating advice, and tried everything, but you’re still struggling to meet someone you truly connect with. The good news? You’re not alone, and you’re not failing. This article explores why dating can feel so frustrating, the hidden factors at play, and practical mindset shifts that can help you approach connections with more ease and confidence.
Go Slow to Go Fast
We live in a world that glorifies speed — quick decisions, instant results, and the pressure to always move forward. But what if the real key to success is the opposite? Going slow to go fast is a principle rooted in product development, behavioral economics, and even neuroscience, showing that rushing can actually lead to more mistakes, wasted effort, and missed opportunities. Whether in work, relationships, or personal growth, slowing down allows for better decision-making, deeper connections, and ultimately, faster progress in the long run.
Dodging the Bullet
"I couldn’t put my finger on it, but something just felt off." Ever had that moment when a match seemed promising — until a phone call, a weird message, or an offhand comment made you hesitate?
10 Assumptions That Break Connections
Assumptions can break connections — whether in dating, friendships, or the workplace. Discover the most common relationship myths and how to approach connections with curiosity and flexibility.
How to Recognize and Recover from Dating Burnout
Exhausted by endless swiping and lackluster dates? Dating burnout is real, but it doesn’t have to define your dating journey. Learn how to recognize the signs, recover, and date with renewed energy and intention.
How to Break the Ice (Online)
Stuck in “The Greeting Standoff”? Don’t worry — you’re not alone. Breaking the ice online doesn’t have to be awkward or generic. Learn how to craft personalized, engaging openers that spark meaningful connections. Whether you’re tackling a dating app or reconnecting with an old match, these tips will help you stand out and feel confident.
How to Break the Ice (Offline)
Have you ever found yourself wanting to "break the ice" with someone but are frozen by fear? Whether it’s the worry of rejection, the fear of coming off as creepy, or just not knowing what to say, you’re not alone. These concerns are incredibly common — but they don’t have to hold you back.
Reflections on 2024: Experimentation, Growth, and Connection
2024 was a year of experimentation, growth, and connection. From hosting events to helping people navigate their dating journeys, I learned that clarity and confidence often come through embracing the unknown. Here’s what I discovered this year and what I’m excited for in 2025.
The Most Attractive Quality
Confidence is the most attractive quality you can bring to online dating, but it’s not about being loud or perfect. Discover how genuine confidence shows up in everyday interactions, why it matters, and how to recognize and cultivate it.
The 3 Keys to Building Genuine Connection
Ever leave a conversation feeling truly seen and heard? That magic comes from three simple skills: thoughtful questions, deep listening, and authentic sharing. Learn how to apply these techniques to deepen your connections and make every interaction more meaningful — whether it’s with a date, a friend, or a colleague.